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How to Practice Loving Kindness Meditation

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There are different ways to practice this form of meditation, each based on different Buddhist traditions, but each variation uses the same core psychological operation.

During your meditation, you generate kind intentions toward certain targets including yourself and others. The following is a simple and effective loving kindness meditation technique to try.

  1. Carve out some quiet time for yourself (even a few minutes will work) and sit comfortably. Close your eyes, relax your muscles, and take a few deep breaths.
  2. Imagine yourself experiencing complete physical and emotional wellness and inner peace. Imagine feeling perfect love for yourself, thanking yourself for all that you are, knowing that you are just right—just as you are. Focus on this feeling of inner peace and imagine that you are breathing out tension and breathing in feelings of love.
  3. Repeat three or four positive, reassuring phrases to yourself. These messages are examples, but you can also create your own:
  4. May I be happy
  5. May I be safe
  6. May I be healthy, peaceful, and strong
  7. May I give and receive appreciation today
  8. Bask in feelings of warmth and self-compassion for a few moments. If your attention drifts, gently redirect it back to these feelings of loving kindness. Let these feelings envelop you.
  9. You can choose to either stay with this focus for the duration of your meditation or begin to shift your focus to loved ones in your life. Begin with someone who you are very close to. Feel your gratitude and love for them. Stay with that feeling. You may want to repeat the following phrases or similar ones that bring about feelings of loving kindness within you:
  10. May you be happy
  11. May you be safe
  12. May you be healthy, peaceful, and strong
  13. May you give and receive appreciation today
  14. Once you’ve held these feelings toward that person,bring other important people from your life into your awareness, one by one, and envision them with perfect wellness and inner peace. Then branch out to other friends, family members, neighbours, and acquaintances. You may even want to include groups of people around the world. Extend feelings of loving kindness to people around the globe and focus on a feeling of connection and compassion. You may even want to include those with whom you are in conflict to help reach a place of forgiveness or greater peace.
  15. When you feel that your meditation is complete, open your eyes. Remember that you can revisit the wonderful feelings you generated throughout the day. Internalize how loving kindness meditation feels and return to those feelings by shifting your focus and taking a few deep breaths.